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Easter Sunday

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Seventeen Weeks

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Sticky niece and nephew on a sunshiny day

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Now that I’m in my second trimester, my midwife recommends that I consume 100 grams of protein per day (protein-rich diets during pregnancy are linked with lower occurences of pre-eclampsia, gestational diabetes, and low birth weight). That’s a lot of meat and milk, y’all. This was my record a few weeks ago. I’ve since hit 104.

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What would a picture post be without at least one of our Geoff?

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Michael Ryan’s closet is filling up.

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Finally, we’re getting our mud hole pond somewhere close to presentable. The hollyhock and hostas I dug from our ditch.

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“Hey Cody. I think there’s a crawfish in the pond.” I poke a stick into a hole in the rocks. “I see whiskers!” Giant catfish darts out from hole. Cody stands in awe of his super-duper wife who found a mystery catfish in his koi pond.

Seriously though. We have no idea how this got in. The only people who might have tossed it in as a joke were just as surprised as we were (and probably wouldn’t have done it anyways for fear that it would eat our expensive koi). The other possibility is that a catfish egg got transplanted via bird back in the fall and grew to enormous proportions over the winter.  Nevertheless, he got relocated to a nearby pond and no koi or goldfish were lost. Any ideas?

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Crabapple blossom

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This is what my precious husband has been doing every evening this week. Notice the taped-up, blistered hands.

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We’ve planted: nine tomato plants, fourteen pepper plants, six mounds of squashes, five rows of beans, five mounds of cucumbers, one row of sunflowers, one row of marigolds (supposedly they dispel pests), and two rows of okra. Another row of okra and five rows of corn and we will be finished with planting for now.

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Heirloom Beefsteak, Early Girl, Better Boy

Sweet Banana, Cayenne, Green Bell, Red Bell

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So far, it looks quite neat and very Martha Stewart-ish

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See?

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Yesterday, our sweet neighbor brought over her “leftovers,” which was basically Thanksgiving dinner. With peach cobbler.

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The McNuggets have moved up to the big pen. Thirty-two remain, with one perpetually injured because of his lack of social skills and so confined to a box on the deck where he has forgotten that he is a chicken. They’re now about nine weeks old and really putting down the feed. The White Leghorns have outgrown all of the assorted heavies and will likely be ready for butchering much sooner.

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Michael Ryan Winningham

Michael Ryan

 

Last Saturday, we saw our wiggle-worm baby boy for the very first time. What an amazing thing, to see what’s been squirming and rolling inside my belly for the past month or so. To see his eyes, his little toes, his strong heart, his tiny hands reaching towards his mouth. I have a precious friend who is a sanographer at a hospital about forty-five minutes away. She hooked us up with a late night ultrasound complete with several pictures, a dvd of the thirty minute scan (that I’ve watched at least ten times since), and a print out of all his statistics to take to my midwife next month. According to the ultrasound machine, Michael Ryan weighs approximately eight ounces. Most of his measurements were about a week ahead, which corresponds to my fundal height measurement at my last appointment and my feeling his movements so early. My friend did notice that my placenta is located a tad low. Prayers, please, that this isn’t a big deal and doesn’t affect our baby boy or me.

It is hard to believe that we are half-way to meeting our baby boy!

Food 4/11- 4/18

Honestly, things are tight around here. A vacation (sans vacation days) and baby-related expenses are quickly approaching and I’m doing all I can to keep from dipping into savings. Frugal shopping and cheap meals, even if they aren’t quite as Paleo and protein-packed as I want, is helping squeeze whatever I can from our grocery budget. $73.00 out of $100.00 this week left a little for chicken feed (they’re really putting it down now) and fertilizer for our garden planting this weekend.

Thursday

Supper- at Tricia’s

Friday

Breakfast- bacon and eggs

Lunch- tuna salad on sandwich thins

Supper- homemade chicken nuggets with baked potatoes and baked beans

Saturday

Breakfast- blueberry muffins

Lunch- salad with boiled eggs and leftover nuggets

Supper- fried pork chops with broccoli and cauliflower, canned corn

Sunday

Breakfast- blueberry muffins (if there are any left over) or homemade biscuits with honey

Lunch- grilled Dale’s chicken fingers with green beans

Supper- pinto beans with ham, corn bread

Monday

Breakfast- bacon and eggs

Lunch- leftover beans, cornbread, and chicken

Supper- bbq baked chicken with mashed potatoes and English peas

Tuesday

Breakfast- omelette with ham and cheese

Lunch- leftovers

Supper- spaghetti with whole wheat noodles, meat sauce, and parmesan

Wednesday

Breakfast- bacon and eggs

Lunch- leftover spaghetti

Supper- something with hamburger meat

Snacks

homemade oatmeal raisin cookies

fruit

Greek yogurt

applesauce

 

 

On Children, Education, and Vacations

Having a baby and becoming a parent is a milestone that is accompanied by lots and lots of anxiety about the future and prematurely made decisions about one’s offspring’s course of life. Or so my husband tells me. It may be the hormones, but lately I’ve been contemplating how I want to educate my children.

I have a background in education. In fact, I intended to become an English teacher for much of my undergraduate career. I’ve completed countless undergraduate and graduate level education courses on everything from reading in specific content areas to classroom management skills. I’ve observed and completed practicum hours in a variety of classrooms, both rural and urban. I was a substitute teacher for several years, often filling-in for teachers on long-term leaves that required me to function as an autonomous teacher myself. In other words, I’m not going into this topic blindly. I’m not going into it necessarily bitter either, because my K-12 educational experience wasn’t terrible and, on the surface, it prepared me for college and what most people expect to be the normal course of adult life.

Nevertheless, I’ve know for a couple of years now that I would like to investigate the option of homeschooling our children when the time comes. Cody has finally gotten used to me talking about this semi-taboo subject and at least ignores me now, which I consider to be his coming around to the idea.

The best way I know to explain why in the world I would like to take upon myself the burden pleasure of educating our children is this…

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This is a picture of me and Cody at Dry Tortugas National Park, by far our favorite place in the entire world (so far) and one that we plan to continue to visit as often as possible for the foreseeable future. I’ve shared our experience at this beautiful piece of paradise before and we leave again in just a few weeks for our third annual trip.

It is a top priority for me as a parent and potential home educator to share this type of experience with my children. I firmly believe that investing our money, time, and energy into excursions such as this would reap much richer educational rewards than baseball, winter formals, and SGA elections.

Depending on the age of the child, here are some possible lessons that could be compiled into a four day trip to this magnificent location:

1. Budgeting and Math: It costs money to leave home and travel hundreds of miles into the middle of the Gulf of Mexico. Whether it be setting a goal for a young child’s spending money or allowing an older child to help me plan our family vacation budget, travel offers an opportunity for children to learn how to budget, compare prices and deals, and plan ahead. For more advanced learners, the construction of Fort Jefferson displays amazing feats of architecture and brickwork that would initiate conversations on geometry, construction, financing, advanced shapes, etc.

2. Calendars, Time, Distance, Longitude, Latitude, Speed, Etc.: Looking forward to an upcoming trip offers a chance to teach a young child to use a calendar and recognize days of the week, months of the year, etc.; planning an itinerary could facilitate a lesson on time; air, car, and boat travel could be used to compare modes of transportation and ways of measuring speed; trekking to remote locations offers a chance to use a GPS and learn about distances.

3. Geography: Most people have no idea that DTNP exists and that Key West is not, in fact, the end of the Florida Keys. Let’s learn to read a map, kiddos!

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4. History- This is the biggie.

Lesson #1:The ferry ride to Dry Tortugas includes a really cool video about someone finding treasure in the Keys in the 1980s and recounts several stories of Spanish ship-faring in the sixteenth and seventeenth centuries (there is a museum in Key West that displays many of the artifacts that were found).

Lesson #2: Fort Jefferson was built prior to and during the Civil War but was never used in battle. What is the Civil War and why would they need a fort way out here?

Lesson #3: The physician who set the leg of John Wilkes Booth, Dr. Samuel Mudd, was imprisoned in Fort Jefferson after President Lincoln was assassinated. What events led to Lincoln’s death? What is an assassination?

Lesson #4: What are barracks, cannons, muskets, etc. and how were they used? (many of these items are housed in DTNP’s visitor’s center).

I could go on and on…

5. Science- Another biggie.

Lesson #1: What are coral reefs and how do they form?

Lesson #2: What is a cistern and how does it work?

Lesson #3: Why are some animals endangered and how are they protected? (part of the island is reserved as a bird sanctuary for a variety of endangered and formerly endangered fowl, the park has a program for capturing and destroying non-native lionfish, and sea turtles and their protected nests are a common sight)

Lesson #4: the tide and the moon

Lesson #5: How a composting toilet works.

Lesson #6: Oh my goodness at the sea life- let’s identify, compare and contrast, talk about what they eat and how we might know that, crustaceans vs. mammals vs. fish…

Lesson #7: constellations and planets

Lesson #8: How does a lighthouse work?

Lesson #9: heat, humidity, weather, etc.

Lesson #10: How does disease spread? What was medicine like in the nineteenth century?

Lesson #11: How does an airplane stay in the air?

6. Communication skills: Have an older child call and make a reservation via phone or write a confirmation email. Complete an online form for a Florida fishing license. Participate in the NPS’s Junior Ranger Program. Ask a fisherman or sailboat owner where he or she is traveling next. Introduce oneself to fellow campers. Entertain oneself without TV, radio, internet, etc. Sit quietly on a plane. Order from a restaurant independantly.

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7. Life skills: (disclaimer: this is not an intro to The Winningham’s Guide to Prepping, but it is good to know how to keep yourself fed and safe in a variety of environments and situations) Transporting water, how to cook without electricity, how to pack a cooler, how to not die of sun exposure, how to stay hydrated, how to keep you body semi-clean without a bath or shower, how to catch and clean fish, how to set-up a tent, how to stay comfortable without air conditioning, how to pack a suitcase, time management and responsibility (for example: Yes, son, you may go look for the crocodile but you need to report back to the campsite in fifteen minutes. Make sure you have your watch on and keep an eye on the time.)

8. Toddler and Preschool Activities: practicing letters in the sand, identifying colors, learning to eat at a table in preparation for the exciting upcoming trip, swimming lessons, sensory play, learning to wear a hat and sunscreen (from what I have observed, these seem to be HUGE obstacles for parents with little tots- why not have literal lessons beforehand so that the child knows what to expect?)

9. Physical Education: swimming, snorkeling, kayaking, nighttime walks around the moat with headlamps, Frisbee/ volleyball on the grounds of the fort, re-enactment of a soldier’s march atop the fort

10. Reading: The visitor’s center has binders full of letters written by nineteenth century soldiers who were stationed at the fort as well as the famous Dr. Mudd. The fort’s giant windows offer cool places for independent reading during the heat of the day.

I must stop myself.

I would love to center much of our children’s education on two or three trips like this one to DTNP each year. A (traditional) semester of school coursework could easily be constructed around such an adventure and would incorporate so much more than simple math and reading skills (what much of our schools’ curriculum is focused on, despite the push for more advanced math and science). Frankly, I don’t care if my child doesn’t know the anatomy of a cell. If he or she wants to be a nurse, textbooks are available and can be read independently when they old enough, interested enough, and have the reading skills necessary to quickly absorb such information because it is pertinent to their interests. What I do want for my children is a well-rounded and insightful understanding of the world in which they live, a set of practical skills that will help them be self-sufficient and independent no matter their course in life, a general understanding of a wide array of topics so that they can participate in and contribute to conversations with people from all types of backgrounds (including adults and older children), an understanding and appreciation of nature in all its forms, and a love for learning not because it results in As on their report cards and a five dollar bill from Dad, but because it enriches their lives and excites them.

Yes, this desire to homeschool is absolutely about control over my children. I want to guide them to all the wonderful experiences, places, and ideas out there to which they would not otherwise be exposed if they spent nine months out of the year immersed in our standard educational system. Here, child, let mama buy you a book about sea life or a poster that displays bear species or a map of the constellations or a set of binoculars or a book about fashion in the Colonial period instead of a video game or a new shirt for picture day. I want a home filled with collections of five cent post cards, sea shells, and maps not Barbie dolls and Disney movies. Let us be poor. Let us be unpopular. But also let us be true learners.

Food 4/4- 4/11

Thursday

Breakfast- paleo breakfast cups with peppers

Lunch- out or sandwiches- bring to Cody’s work

Supper- parmesan chicken roll-ups with steamed broccoli and cauliflower cheese sticks with sauce

Friday

Breakfast- bacon, fried eggs, fruit

Lunch- leftover roll-ups on salad

Supper- fried pork chops with German noodles and sautéed green beans

Saturday

Breakfast- scones and sausage balls with maple syrup

Lunch- tuna salad sandwiches on German bread with pickles and fruit

Supper- out to eat- Find out gender!

Sunday

Breakfast- sausage balls warmed-up with maple syrup, eggs and fruit

Lunch- Quizno’s (set aside money and look for coupon)

Supper- grill-out hamburgers and hot dogs w/ chips

Monday

Breakfast- bacon and eggs

Lunch- leftover hamburger with small salad and baked potato

Supper- grilled Dale’s chicken with mashed potatoes and English peas

Tuesday

Breakfast- bacon and fruit

Lunch- leftovers

Supper- taco meat with peppers and onions on lettuce, salsa and chips

Wednesday

Breakfast- sausage balls and warmed-up scones with maple syrup

Lunch- leftover taco salad

Supper- tomatoes, corn, and okra with chicken over cornbread

Snacks:

  • Texas caviar with chips and chicken
  • Fruit
  • yogurt
  • Peanut butter and honey on bread
  • Cheese and grapes
  • Cheese with nuts and honey
  • turkey bacon

To Our Baby

April 2, 2012

Baby Winningham (this might be the last time I call you that!),

Your Daddy was saved last night. Praise the Lord! Your mama has been praying for this for many years. Out of the blue, your Daddy’s life has changed.

How blessed I am to have a precious, Christian husband to help me bring you into this world and raise you for the glory of God. Your Daddy didn’t have parents who showed him Jesus, taught him the Bible, or took him to church. I, shamefully, did not make my faith a priority when we were dating and at the beginning of our marriage. That was a terrible mistake on my behalf and one I feared would also affect you.

I am so thankful that God intervened and cause your Daddy to reach out to Him before you are born. I now have the assurance that if I were to die, you will be raised by a Christian father and a wonderful, loving man.

We get to see you for the first time on Saturday! Daughter or son, our hearts are bursting will love for you already.

– Your Mama